Do you mind....?

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 2:14 pm Post subject: Do you mind....?

girl... do you mind ur bf/husband qualification lower than you?

such as... maybe u are master.. and he only SPM holder?
or... his earning lesser than you..
or... you at least own a property.. car.. and he have nothing?
or....his height shorter than u... most of the girl mind their bf shorter than her ?...
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tcj13888 · PJNet Junior Joined: Jan 22, 2006 Posts: 536

From a guy point of view, it will be depress and uncomfortable naturally to be with the girl who have better Qualification and others than the guy.

Very Happy

Mentality or mind set for female already set. I don't think the girl will not accept the guy. the guy must atleast equal standard with the girl.

If the girl mature enough, she know that she would not want the guy as their life partner.

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 3:50 pm Post subject:

if u know urself have no such qualifications... would u just simply get another girl as long as they can accept u?... or u will just look for those equal standard girl? even thou u like tat girl with higher qualifications but u will choose to give up ? Rolling Eyes

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merce · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:05 pm Post subject:

i'm speaking on my behalf...

i dont mind having a GF who has higher qualifications than me, which includes higher paycheck, better academic achievement, or higher networth property or even taller than me(but of course not too tall over my head lah...)

living together means learning together, if she can teach me things i never know of, y not? its all about improving ur life and hers/his. and nothing beats the great moments of sharing quality improvements with someone u care about that much.

but hey~ thats just me. =)

pencapchew · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:23 pm Post subject:

Well said, but I don't think smarter girl will show their brains in front of a much stupid bf. Most prolly they'll just act as stupid as their bf. It's when you becoming the person u like and vice versa. One of those days when your bf telling stories about magic skills in Harry Potter story, and you're actually listening and adds up a few stupid magic...and ends up being scolded for screwing the whole story.

humanfly · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:30 pm Post subject:

hmm...this senario seems like one of my friends...his wife holds a double degree and a master. He is just SPM holder.. even the SPM he got SAP. means he failed BM. but he is making more money than the wife are. infact, the wife no need to work at all...but the wife still works...

but before he became rich, he really work hard, early in the morning left the house and only come back late at night... the wife continue to support him and encourage him to work hard...finally his hardwork had paid off. they are all now living comfortable in a bungalow.

if the girl does mind their bf who has lower pay or even education, why at the first place you want to be with him. doesnt you know that he do not have anything before u being with him?

if a girl said that to me, i will tell the girl to F**K off from my life. i am still young. what comes around goes around, who might not know that i will be living a comfortable life in the future will all the hardwork that i had put in.
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sunsui · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 06, 2007 Posts: 129

for me...i don mind about education...but my husband must earn more than i do. cuz i would like him to pay me but not the other way round. one of my lecturer did tell me b4, as a gal, ur husband's money is ur money, and ur money is stil ur money. Mr. Green

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:22 pm Post subject:

hahah..my frend MSN display.. : A successful man is the one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. Mr. Green

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wilder · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 29, 2007 Posts: 191

i don`t mind if the girl more successful/taller/etc as long as she doesn`t act like a jerk
about it Very Happy

i mean dealing with jerks on an everyday basis, and coming home to another jerk is not
a life i am looking for.

probably why i am not married yet:D

waiwai · Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:02 am Post subject: Re: Do you mind....?

merce · Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:45 am Post subject: Re: Do you mind....?

lovepark · Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 2:01 pm Post subject:

why u wan girl taller than u meh ??

hehe..waiwai... i do mind about height also... Razz

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humanfly · Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:30 pm Post subject: Re: Do you mind....?

humanfly · Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:31 pm Post subject:

Invest in a woman

It's a great fortune to invest your time in a woman, especially a good woman. If you are an experienced man, you would certainly agree with me.

Women are peculiar species. If you have succeeded in conquering her heart, she will ceaselessly sacrifice for you till the end of your life.

Just think over, you just spend a little of your time to go out for dinner with her, watch a movie or give her a simple gift, or say a few words to touch her heart or you promise her that you will bring happiness till the end of her life, or take time to help her kill some cockroaches in the kitchen, or sometimes spend some efforts helping her to carry some heavy stuff, or to open the car door for her. Continue to do all the above things and care for her well-being for 2 to 3 years to come........

What do you get in return?

You will be amazed to find that you have a woman whom would continue to care for your well-being for the rest of your life. She will wait for you at the door steps with a naïve and sweet smile each time when you meet her (of course, you don't get the sweet smile when you are arguing with her), nevertheless, she would still prepare a warm dinner for you after the heated argument has faded away...

The greatest of all things she has done for her life, is to give birth to your child (of course, the unbearable pain need not be mentioned here)...
She would continue to care and feed the child that carry your surname for many years to come no matter how naughty your child would be.

On top of that, she also does the thing you that hated the most, i.e. doing housework, washing your clothes, sleep your child and tossing alone in the bedroom waiting for you at night for your return. For some of you, you would rather spend some time drinking with your friends at the bar and telling her that you have important assignments in the office, letting her to wait for your return in the living room till the wee hours of the morning ...

When you are down, she will be the first to encourage you. When you are happy, she would be the first to feel for your happiness before you open your mouth to tell her by looking at your face. When you achieve some good results at work or assignments, she feels the happiness with all her heart and pray to God to protect and bless you with more successes in the future.

Despite all the above, you repay her by asking her to talk less and tell her not to bother your work. You ask her to sleep when she wanted to spend some precious time with you sharing with some simple happenings of the day.
Sometimes, you are too proud to take her out when you are out with your friends. Can you feel that the suffering that she has to endure for the next 30 years of her life staying with someone like you?

And for men, for the next 30 years, what do you do to repay her gratitude; you are only capable to continue to do what you know.......to work

Please continue to appreciate the woman of your life....

If you noticed that if there any women whom start to show some sacrifices to you, your door to the days of happiness has opened before you ....

Please grab the opportunity to share the happiness with her and help her to be the man of her dreams....
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wilder · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 29, 2007 Posts: 191

i think women who are like this are rare nowadays:D