How you reject the guy you are not interested?

lovepark

Girl if u are very famous among guys but alots of them u are not interested.. how would u reject them?... or.. someone u don like date u out... usually how would u say NO to them? ... "sorry.. busy?..." but guy who not give up will said.. "nvm.. tomolo breakfast?" again and again... OMG.. very fan... tak kan say... "u so young sui... go home makan with ur mommy" Razz

but guy if u get rejected by girl u are also welcome to share... and we learn learn and share share to each other... like eg :

Berry · PJNet Newbie Joined: Sep 28, 2007 Posts: 14

Sorry, I've been very busy my schedule was pack; I’m only available by next year.
Can you wait? Smile

It’s hard to reject you, but I have no choice due to my busy schedule. When I available I give you a call.

Beside that, tell the truth. DON'T lie - when the truth comes out, they'll be much more hurt.

1) Be honest. If your lover asks you straightforwardly for a date, respect him/her enough to give them an honest and straightforward answer. Saying "I like you as a friend but I'm not interested in you romantically." may sting a bit, but it's far less hurtful than leading someone on.

2) I don't want to date anyone right now.

3) I'm only dating so-and-so right now

Galz · PJNet Junior Joined: Jul 11, 2007 Posts: 368

Easy nia.. Just say my mummy dun allow me to go out with guys lo.. Since she is so popular she dun need to worry nobody wants her. Or just say iam single(not married) but unavailable cos i money comes first so career/business comes first.

lovepark · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject:

just ask... " you have 1 million ?" Mr. Green

aiyor galz.. itu macam u reject ur boy boy ka? Razz

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sskelviny · PJNet Newbie Joined: Oct 16, 2007 Posts: 6

Lovepark, what he says he has 1 Mil indeed, a ferarri, 3 serviced suites apartments but still yeong sui le?

lovepark · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:56 pm Post subject:

i will reply say : why u have 1 million still don wan to do plastic surgery geh Mr. Green

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sskelviny · PJNet Newbie Joined: Oct 16, 2007 Posts: 6

Haha...you caught me there....
Then he will tell u, thats where by other 9 Million went
OMG!!

anony_me · PJNet Starter Joined: Apr 21, 2007 Posts: 77

ahhahahahaha!! that's funny! Laughing

anyway, for me, what i'll normally do when a guy confronted me about his feelings is, i "act" neutral..

example:
guy: hey, i think i have feelings - more than just a normal friend towards you.. (however is it la.. i also duno! haahah..this is self made-up sentence)

me: oh really?? ahahahaha! interesttingg...! why of all other people me..? hmm.. cool..cool.. (and try my best to change topic - by then i guess he should be able to get my hint already)

hehehe.. that way.. at least doesnt make him feel so awkward and yet we can still maintain our friendship..

what do u guys think ? Laughing

wilder · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 29, 2007 Posts: 191

waaahh pakai my experience as example. i should ask for payment Wink

in my personal opinion, if you want to dump a guy:

1) don`t give stupid reason.
2) don`t insult.
3) be honest.
4) don`t say "let`s be friend". its worse than insults. its a form of torture!

so far i can think only 4 Very Happy

lovepark · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:53 pm Post subject:

why cant be frend ler?? Rolling Eyes

be frend = insults?
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lovepark · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:57 pm Post subject:

lovepark · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject:

Galz · PJNet Junior Joined: Jul 11, 2007 Posts: 368

Hahaha.. This thread getting funny and cute.. I will tell him u siau ah? wanna meet my mummy, my mummy mai meet u also..haha.. If he really gets too persistent and thick skin then can ask him go meet my dad in heaven Mr. Green

Usually i will tell them that i am not ready for any relationship/ commitment, u wanna wait is not my prob. But never know what will happen in the future so it's up to the guy totally. ( then can ask them for help easily next time )

If a guy say that he loves you very much then just tell him you are not the only one lo..

lovepark · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:51 pm Post subject:

aiyorrrr.. .. u are so bad lar.. making used of that guy.. ---> u wanna wait is not my prob. But never know what will happen in the future so it's up to the guy totally. ( then can ask them for help easily next time )

hehe.. wait til u are not at home.. go ur house visit ur mommy... "aunty.. i am galz's bf.. this is my little gift for u as 1st time visit u..... btw today is my birthday... would u like to go dinner with us as well... Shocked

i already booked a table

what is scary its.... "galz.. i love u very much... i cant live without you... blah blah blah".... then suiside threaten you
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Galz · PJNet Junior Joined: Jul 11, 2007 Posts: 368

Eh.. i got that before le.. The friends all come to my house and tell me he wanna die liao. then i just dun care. The mother some more call me to ask am i his gf cos he go tell everyone i am then kena reject liao he sad till wan die.

If the giy dare to come then i will set all my dogs on him.. Wahahaha.. See how he wanna tipu my dog. My dog very smart wan. Even if you give food he will eat and then still scold and attack you. If he dare to harm my dog i will hate him forever liao same goes to my family so see how he pass this obstacle..Haha..