Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 1:05 am Post subject: Damn HOUSEMATE!!!!!
I hav housemates who r damn LAZY and DIRTY!!!!
im de one who clean de house, n throw all de rubbish dey left behind..
wat make me jump de most is dey like to order me to do dis do dat!!!!
yes, dey r working n im de oni 1 studying but doesn't mean dat i should do all de housework rite??! really cant stand n wanna move out...
but i like my room so much, somemore dis s a nice place with good environment, dunno wat to do now..
how's ur roommate/housemate? anyone same fate with me n wat shall we do den?
I agree with dis planet69. For ze day or two jus dont do any cleaning or throw out de trash. Wait and see wats de reaction. If no reaction continue do nothing for a week or so. After a while de whole place get so dirty de lazy housemates may just move. Den you can get new housemates that r more responsible and hopefully cleaner. Dis is my good advis 4 u.
Thanks planet69 and friedice.. I hav tried ur advice long time ago, but dey can really stand de dirty environment n sometimes without knowing it!!!
at last i'll get de blame, seems like its my responsiblility to clean all de mess, i feel im juz like 'ah ban'..
1 more thing i really cant stand is 1 of my housemates which is a girl, she like to throw her personal thing (used pad) into de dustbin in de kitchen.. de thing juz 'open' like dat with all her 'red thing'.. how could i stand!!! everytime when i wanna cook, it takes all my appetite n i rather give up cooking..
but as a guy, how am i goin to tell her bout dis personal thing??!! i thought her mum should teach her how to handle dis properly.. (as my mum will teach my younger sis)
Joined: Sep 15, 2006 Posts: 1563 Location: PJ old town
Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 6:05 pm Post subject:
Time for plan B; move-out
If yr roomates refuse to do their share of the cleaning, but u insist on having them clean up after themselves, the stand-off wouldn't do any good.
Slowy you'll stop cleaning up their mess and cry fuck it! out of severe frustration and soon the whole place would not be suitable for human occupation. If u can't change them, then dun let them change u. Get out now!
Btw, I'm a clean-freak too _________________ Niah-gong!!! That deserves a slap
I wont let them change me.. however, its hard to change me oso lar, brought up like this by my mum.. haaii...
Thanks plane69 for replying me so far, i do feel better after discuss de matter with u all..
Its a good news that Plan B noneed to come into picture liao, coz I buy them dinner last night n we really sat down n talk..
I told them everything in my heart n surprisingly everything settled!!!
They agree to bear wit me not to dirty the place n try to clean the house when they r free, hehehehe....
I know its hard for them to clean the house de lar, its enough if they wont dirty the place..
From this matter, I have learned something, juz b frank to others so that they understand n willing to compromise..
Or mayb im de lucky one..
Sooo happy Noneed to say bye bye to my room liao..
Btw, thanks bro for ur advice..
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Noneed to say bye bye to my room liao..
