My love story

loselegend · PJNet Starter Joined: May 16, 2007 Posts: 64

This is my story:
My relation start in my hometown. Now we study at kl (2 years). But when we at kl, i oways angry her for some realy low-life stupid reason and i even say the damn forbidden word to hurt her. Eventough i angry at her n mad at her, she stil hope for a future us. And YES again i too stupid n dun change my behavior. 1 month later, she found a new love n yet she waiting for me. But i dun knw she found the new love. IF I KNOW I SURE WAN BACK HER. But all too late.

She really good to me. Very good n i stil broke her heart...

she is funny, charming, even smile n teasing each other when we fart, i really miss her, i really do...
I c every of my picture smiling, all is smile to her, i onli have all the picture that is wif her o is captured by her...
And i never tought tat this will be the end of my relationship, I even think far till v married, have kids, v even have set our child name. But...

Even now i still hoping...

Am i stupid for hoping tat i oready know mayb is imposible? I evn try to find a new girl around me but i stil thinking my ex...

Mayb every ppl are right, finding a new girl is a solution but will it fair to the other girl? And will be the other girl love me more than my ex used to love me?

This thing happen in last week.

Can any girl giv opinian on my stupidity? or simply juz giv opinian.

Of coz any girl age 18-21 can date me as well. Very Happy

I m 20 years old today, thin, not so handsome, sometime wear spec.
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merce · Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 11:10 pm Post subject:

looks like another loverboy's adventure gone sour.

calling consultants... calling the consultants.

friedice · Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 11:34 pm Post subject:

And here is my sad story:

My GF quarreled with me this morning Sad

and she ran away with a married man this afternoon. Confused

So now I am feeling very sad. Sad

Can any gals here age 18-28 pls PM me your tel number or date me out so I can talk to you and maybe you can console me abit. I am 18 years old, not thin, not fat, not short, not tall, not ugly but also not handsome and I dont wear specs....just contacts. Mr. Green

I would be grateful if some of you gals contact me an give me a chance so I can brush up on my crocodile skills. Thank you. Rolling Eyes

humanfly · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 1:25 am Post subject:

loselegend....u have my contact right ?? sms me again ur number....and u can join us for 'drinking' session...on Fridays or Saturdays...
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sunsui · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 06, 2007 Posts: 128

yeah...you don deserve her love...so just forget the past and move forward. never think of getting a new gf if u don change ur attitute...else u will end up being dumped again again and again. wish her luck. focus on ur studies 1st...like me Mr. Green

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 9:09 am Post subject:

i will say.... u asked for it.. and most of the people will only think of appreciate when they lost someone
but.. are u really still love her? or just bcos she dumped you before u do?

from begining when i read ur post.. i was actually think u might be still love her still can win her back.. but read until the end... very dissapointed.. when u ask girls to date u out. u really not deserve a good girl to love you.. cos no matter how good it is.. u wont appreciate her..

If u think u urself is better than the new guy.. u think urself can give her better future tat he can't able to give her.. if u think u are the only person can give her happiness.. go ahead and chase her back and make sure u change ur personality 1st. But if u think u can't give her happiness as the new guy do.. please let her go.. if u really love her. cos when u love someone its not a must to own her.. is to make her happiness which u never make it at the begining. you wont know how to love a girl.. how to appreciate a girl. and u still young.. go and fall down for few times and learn how to love a girl.. if until the end u still think this girl is the most u love, still can't forget her.. then only u win her heart back. else.. stop hurting her !! a successful man is to make ur woman happiness for you.. a failure man will only make ur woman cry for you.
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humanfly · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 9:17 am Post subject:

lovepark...he is still young and naive... dunno what is the real world outside there.... let him face some real disapointment then he will really wake up...
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planet69 · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 9:33 am Post subject:

you left someone who could muster a smile after you've farted!?
you don't really deserve her after all...
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Niah-gong!!! That deserves a slap Mr. Green

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 11:41 am Post subject:

That deserves a slap Razz

before she broke up with u.. did she always cry over over again and argue with u or scolding u not being a man?
i tell u the truth... actually this girl she still very love you.. until she have new guy.. she still hope you to change for her.. and she still waiting for u... (girl is very stupid, no matter how bad the guy treat her, she will still love tat person without complain) but u hurt her too much and she very dissapointed with you.. then only she choose to be with the new guy.. even now i believe she still love you but she already give up after the awaiting period. When a girl who really choose to leave.. means she wont return back... bcos she already very tired with what she already done. she already tried her best but wat she can get is broken heart. she dont want to keep putting hope and keep crying for the man who are not appreciate her. and now she got someone who can give her happiness.. she will give herself a chance and also let the past go.. and u should wish her happy.
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loselegend · PJNet Starter Joined: May 16, 2007 Posts: 64

lovepark, most of ur word is correct. Yes, I m stupid and i m the one that say the forbidden break word. After that, even as friends, sometime n yes, i still wont change my behavior n make her dissapoint again. Even then, she still hoping for a return.

after 2 months, i hav change my behavior so tat when v back togthr she wont sad anymore. So last week i decided to say tat i wan her back n i hav change everything inside me. but its too late for that.

Even now i cant put this thing down. Even wif fren, parent advice i still think of tis thing and i cant even start talk to another girl becoz i stil think abt her. Even my study now also interupt due to day n night i still think abt her. (can say tat i m moodless) Everything around me consist of the memory between us.

She really do love me even break-up n i think she still love me now. but...

I realy dun wan to find another girl. (but i think this is the only way i cant overcome my sadness) Becoz my ex really so nice n willing to "tolak-ansur" of all my badness. Only i too stupid n too late to figure it out.

Even now i still hoping for a return but i knw in my heart that tis mayb cant return. (I still really love her)

If she willing to return, I will rmmbr all my badness in the past so that i wont make a mistake in the future n of coz i will make her more hapy n hapier than b4.
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sunsui · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 06, 2007 Posts: 128

u r saying this cuz now u r losing her...as a gal, i don believe u will appreciate her once she come back. this is ur attitude..do think it can disappear as long as u r telling everybody that you are changing? my ex bf is a play boy, play around with gals..im not sure whether he did sleep around. he told me he will change, n i was so stupid and thought he will change as he is not young. yeah...he did change. for 1 month. after that, started blaming i don give him privacy and freedom, he cant play with gals if he bring me out. and stick with few gals when he was stil with me. if u really love her, let her go...concentrate on ur studies. come on, don mix up ur gf and studies. nothing can be more important than ur studies by now. nobody asking you to get another gf, if you get another gf, wat will ur ex think of you? she will be grateful tat she left you...cuz you are even worse than she expected.. live better...let her see that u are changing...because of her.

lovepark · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject:

in just 2mth u will change ur 20years atitude.. i will choose to believe this is just a temporary promise. cos when come to argue.. ur emotional is the thing to control u.. and u will forget all ur promises.
what a girl want.. is security and future from her man.. and from u.. she can't see anything..bcos she have been give u alots of chances bcos she love u.. but u had missed it. she never open mouth wan u to change is bcos tats not wat she want. she want u change for her willingly and automaticly..

and remember.. to promise a girl.. do not use ur mouth... but use action to prove it.. not only in these few mth.. but forever.
cos wat u are promise here is only bcos u wan to get her back.. u don wan to let her go with other guys.

the world is very cruel and realistic.. there is no one will be there stop revolving her life forever bcos of you.. fall in love a person is very easy.. to love a person is not easy.. to maintain a relationship is very hard.. for sure to forget a person u loved is the most hardest..

wat u can do now.. give her a conclution.. such as : no matter wat it is.. i will wait for u until we graduate.. if will still have feeling with each other, shall we give it a try over and give me the answer on that day. at the moment i wont disturb u.. or u can tell her.. i wish u happiness... after that.. don ever go and disturb her life.. dont call her.. dont sms her.. or see her.. and start to change ur own life.. i believe if she still love u.. she will miss u.. and when u stop disturbing her.. she will start to ask ur frend around.. update ur status.. and wat u need to do.. put ur time in study hard to get excellent result.. (then only can give a good future to her) and change ur atitude is a MUST.. set a target to urself wat if u cant make it? even thou until the end both of u wont able together.. at least let her know she never fall in love to a wrong person.

btw.. do u have ur own blog?.... lol.. this is wat i learn from drama.. i think its very touching.. this guy start to write diary everyday... about the day without the girl he loved..and wat he had done silently.. the feeling towards her..
but of cos.. is not from ur mouth to ask her read ur blog la.... Rolling Eyes

tats all wat i can tell u... don disturb her.. give her some time.. she will appreciate ur understanding and matured thinking. if both of u still have the fate and love each other.. lets continue .. but not now.. cos now its wrong timing.. even back together.. the scar is still there.. and still bleeding.. just wait for the right time.. if she not come back.. and found her own happiness.. wish her sincerely and ur life still need to continue without her.. but at least u wont regret cos u already tried ur best. but when u meet the next girl in the future.. u should able to know how to love a girl... and thanks for ur ex.. to let u know one leason.. appreciate what you have before u lose it
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pencapchew · Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:19 pm Post subject:

loselegend · PJNet Starter Joined: May 16, 2007 Posts: 64

LovePark, really thanks for telling me this advice. This is the best advice i have ever heard.
Thanks again.

And plz dun close tis thread becoz i wan to c tis as my lesson. As my starter kits for a new n better beggining.

Thanks again. Smile

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loselegend · PJNet Starter Joined: May 16, 2007 Posts: 64

Juz wan to ask is the drama is tvb drama got a person named "dak dak dei"?
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