How you reject the guy you are not interested?

sunsui · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 06, 2007 Posts: 128

yes if i got the chance Very Happy

lol...

lovepark · Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:35 am Post subject:

actually... girl prefer someone they have feeling towards... girl agree ma?...
sometimes they give lame excuses also one of the way to test the guy "would he the person who easily give up" or "would he do something to melt her heart"... ehhh... guys.. u think girl is so cheap... u no need to do something to win her heart and expect the girl will easily to just say YES to u? .. yeah... continue and dream.... expecially those girl who hurted by someone before.. will not easiler open their heart.. but of cos.. if u don really love her also.. u will just said " nvm lo... move to next girl" if thats the case... why still start? Rolling Eyes

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wilder · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 29, 2007 Posts: 191

hahahaha thats what i said. why not just say no.

plus if you want to test the guy, there are other way of testing a guy out rather thanb give lame excuses
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narue · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 21, 2007 Posts: 52

Well, for girls we will try not to hurt someone else and so we don't reject with blunt words. Always trying to be more 'tactful' Razz

How about guys? How would you reject a girl then (if you have the chance Twisted Evil

)?

yipck2003 · PJNet Senior Joined: Jun 30, 2005 Posts: 1311

lovepark · Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:23 pm Post subject:

tcj13888 · PJNet Junior Joined: Jan 22, 2006 Posts: 535

How you reject the guy you are not interested?

the question right?

I have been rejected b4 and she gave me a unwelcome tone and telling me she is busy with her work and this this that that.

Do you know what occupation she is in now?....Insurance agent,

She call me for an appointment talk about insurance stuff.

I gave back unwelcome tone and say the same thing she told me b4 and lastly I bought insurance from my " CLOSED FRIEND". TQ,

LUCKY she didn't waste my time, Very Happy

yipck2003 · PJNet Senior Joined: Jun 30, 2005 Posts: 1311

planet69 · Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 11:59 am Post subject:

celakaya · PJNet Starter Joined: Nov 15, 2007 Posts: 45

For the girls, i think the most effective way is to act super psycho. Just do the same back to him.. as in, not asking him out, but calling him every 5 mins or so and asking him what he's doing. And if he's working, even better then. Keep on farn him until he cannot tahan your 'stalking'. Ask him who's the girl talking with him.. what other girl he call to go out.. etc etc etc.. just be super possessive without being his girlfriend. I think any guy who meets a girl like that will run far far away.

raddyoriginal · Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 6:33 pm Post subject:

To my opinion, I think the best way is to tell the guy that u're still dating.

Mr. Green

yipck2003 · PJNet Senior Joined: Jun 30, 2005 Posts: 1311

chu · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 19, 2008 Posts: 43

I have past few experience where guys ask me the type of man i am searching for, then they try to be my good friend, and i remain as their good friend, some younger while others older or same age with me, know what after one week or more, the guys they ignore me, even i only treat them like friend and nothing more.. i assume my attenna too short, i guess they only want to be friends, couldnt be love at such short encounter.. when they turn cold and stranger, i atill dont know why, never commit or reject also, just ignore and be friends..

then there was housemates who told me they wanted to have someone special as gf, so i encourage them to go on.. but i just remain as friends to them.. then most of them we were still house mates but they like to tease me, while one guy dont want to talk to me for a week, when he ok, i tease him then he dont want t talk to me for months until he got a new gf but we tease each other on the mail...i was told he wanted attention, gave him attention also he angry but less compared to when i ignore him..

the last encounter was i recently just new a guy, initially was very cold guy but well behaved, within two months of knowing each other he like to comment on my jokes, time management, dressing style, appetitie, spending habit.. one day i just thought of wearing my engagement ring, what happen was the next day he shouted at me in the office and then mention that i was stalking him.

all these guys who were angry or cold with me were once very close with me, till now i never understand why they suddenly co cold and cruel to me. but i did learn one thing, when guy is angry they can be really immature... any comment?

i did thought they liked me, but as i am not so sure i just ignore, also wrong to them, i pay attention also wrong, tell direct to a younger man also wrong, but i guess a guy who really love you will come back to you once he out of his cave, and dont disturb a man when he is in his cave.. so guys, why are you angry with a girl? will you tell her why you mad? how to properly tell no to a man that we just want to be friends?

Allan · PJNet Junior Joined: Jul 01, 2005 Posts: 566

mayb u just unlucky to meet them that way..

or shud i say u approach them with different style. Smile

one thing i don't understand, are u engaged?

and the guy u recently met is ur partner? if yes, why did he shouted at you since he's ur partner..

if NO then he shouldn't shouted at you.. if i were u .. i will screw him upside down for shouting at my decision. I engaged to other person.. i wan to wear my engagement ring. and that's my problem not that guy problem. if he shouted at me, i will slap his mother. rape his sister. that's the punishment.

btw your story is too general. can describe in details ah for better understanding? Thank you ah chu.. Smile

chu · PJNet Starter Joined: Oct 19, 2008 Posts: 43

i on the divorce already lar, i wear it because when i see him overly concern about me, i dont want to hurt him, telling him i was married and divorcing sound awkward as we are only 2 months old friendship, and only meet up at lunch as group, what if he say i think too much and i would bang myself on the wall, so the best is body language by wearing the ring, i still bang myself.. adui.. shouldnt have wear the ring right, should have just get lost since i was there for short term only.. now i left already lor.. it's the past, more important in future how to take care of a guy ego, to tell him no and still be good friends?

- being rude or stalking to him: is a no no asking a friendship to get lost
- telling him excuses that girl is not ready, but he may not give up: fan sei wor always have to pretend busy, in the end still get the cool treatment
- pretend to ignore not knowing his special feeling and befriends: get bang also
- using body language like engagement ring get bang also
- perhaps i wonder inviting him out in two person, have a good dinner or lunch, looking straight to his eyes, lower the tone and smiles telling him i just want to befriend? anyhow i have to expect the guys need to cool off after being telling no is it?