I need help i need advices.....

eve_star · PJNet Newbie Joined: Aug 29, 2008 Posts: 17

i guess sm of u guys knw my story frm d other side... i am depress..
i hav relationship wif a person i should nt to..
feelin toward him is cant b describe by words
he broken my heart whn he cheat on me.. he flirtin wif my so call as best frend .. i knw d gal trappin him.. she nt really lov him bt she need him as a man caring n b wif her.. i knw she hunger for ppl to care her she jealousy ppl to hav gd life.. she wan all for her own...does she hav to b tat cheap??
she admit all in front of me bt tellin diff story in front of other... she make story n framing me .. even make evry1 includin him dun even trust on me .. i was so silly to trust n lov tat gal so much...i had hurt 10 times.. cos i hurt by 2 ppl i trust n lov most...i cant get over it ... i dunno hw...fellin so depress .. feelin wan all knw wat she did to me...the prove is wif me.. the truth is wif me... wat kind of human tat using her own mother name to get a guy??? she told tat guy i call up her mother n spoke out all d story about them.. i din do it.. All i need is a trust frm him ... bt he fail to giv it.. he break promises even cant keep tell truth... i dunno wat to do....

jusco · Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 12:08 pm Post subject:

sorry to hear that from you..
but anyway.. shit happens.. i beleive there are more stories out there which are worst than yours..
not saying that u are not pity.. but wat i mean is.. whyu need to feel sad or sorry when the fault is not on you...
ppl come and go easily.. so just forget them and find other ppl who can really share and trust each other again...

i know its not easy to start trusting ppl again, but try not to trust them 100%.. even its ur best fren or partner or even family members...
i too had a bad day recently.. ppl are not trusting me either cos i break my promise once.. hehehe.. but till now, they dun trust me anymore..

surely they are hurt by my actions.. but then, its better that way, so that they wont trust me 100% now....

its kinda confusing here.. hehe.. so just be strong and go meet new frens..!!! Mr. Green

denis_t · Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:04 am Post subject:

hi eve.

sorry to hear what's happening. well the truth is, it's not your fault and it's not your problem at all. since you've already found out that he's been cheating on you and that he'd rather trust the bitch rather than his very own gf, i guess there's just nothing left for you and him anymore.

He's probably finding it exciting to be with her and that this kind of thing could be new for him and he's finding it fun. He's not getting enough of you, and that's the problem. Dump that stupid asshole, that's all i can say. You don't want to be with a guy who doesn't appreciate you despite all those fun and time you shared together. This is the type of guy who'd keep cheating on you despite 50 years after your marriage, coz all he wants is fun and excitement.

trust me that at the end of the day, the poor guy is not gonna get anything at all. He's gonna loose you, and he's gonna loose her too. That bitch doesn't even love him.

he doesn't worth your tears. go out and make friends. He'd realise how stupid he was to have cheated on you 10 years from now and he'd be too shy to tell you.

take k. Wish to hear some good stuffs from you soon.

jusco · Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:36 am Post subject:

i will say most of the guys will look for a new girl whenever he is bored.. but he will never know that the girl he love the most is the GF.. but it will be too late when he realise that.. as both parties had already break off....

there are more than 2 millions of guys out there that are slightly better then him.. so just go out and have fun... dun get sad because of one tiny ikan bilis... :p

strawberry_cake · PJNet Newbie Joined: Jun 16, 2009 Posts: 5

sorry to hear that.. hope ya hav a speedy recover.
he's a true B@stard
here's some tips:

>i always take a relationship like FISHING.. sometimes we need to care and sometimes we DON"T!
>my mum used to taught me not to treat a guy well when starting a new relationship (for easier handling in the future) Laughing

so i do agree with her..
>once a while try to off your phone at night will deraw some attention

jusco · Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 10:53 am Post subject:

ooh.. i like the last suggestion.. turn off the phone.. hehehe....
sure he will get worried to sick... Mr. Green

but dun do it too often,, just in case next time emergency cant contact u..

USADude · PJNet Newbie Joined: Jun 19, 2009 Posts: 1

Dump the bum and come to America with me and be treated like the princess you are!!!!

Pet_PlayGround · PJNet Newbie Joined: May 18, 2009 Posts: 6

so sorry to hear that from you..

jusco · Posted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 2:34 pm Post subject:

eve star:
how are u lately? still going strong? Mr. Green

eve_star · PJNet Newbie Joined: Aug 29, 2008 Posts: 17

joeklc · PJNet Senior Joined: Jan 13, 2007 Posts: 1082

hi .. just saw your post today .. and happy that u throw away that sad and bad memory ...

kambathe...
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jusco · Posted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 12:23 pm Post subject:

Great to hear that u are ok now...
u can send me a PM on your address for me to add u in our facebook. hehe..

time will heal all wounds.. and while waiting for the wounds to heal.. go find other happier things to do to speed up the recovery...

-Yan Sang Yao Kei Tor Sap Neen, wood tak tong tong fai fai...- Mr. Green

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