who will be the saddest party in a 3 party relationship?

feiyinz · PJNet Newbie Joined: Jul 24, 2008 Posts: 15

sounds familiar to your life? collecting view on behalf my friends... personally i would think that the most sad party would the original parties i.e 2 ppl then came the third party .. agree?

chrystie171

Third party will always have the advantage, because third party accepts his/her partner have another partner. Also means, third party have to accept that whenever there's occasions, the two timer cant accompany him/her.

The original party involved will get hurt in the end, after knowing that her/his love one (so-call lah) betrayed her. Whenever that person felt betrayed, that person will hurt most.

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paint9 · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 18, 2008 Posts: 26

strongly agree

i feel deeply hurt ...

Home · PJNet Newbie Joined: Sep 17, 2008 Posts: 4

Yes, third party will always standing at the advantage side. Even if he/she cant win the girl/guy over, its nothing compare to the one betrayed by his/her half.

And it is this third party who forcedly step into the current relationship at the 1st place.

I think only person who gone through can understand.

Allan · PJNet Junior Joined: Jul 01, 2005 Posts: 566

life.. what to do...

since life is short. why don't think simple and make it simple Smile

like take.. dun like suak. Smile

kautim

jeaniie · PJNet Starter Joined: Jan 31, 2007 Posts: 153

There's one saying... if the cow don't drink water, we can't push his head down.

Whenever a relationship encounter hiccups, especially with a third party presence, all the three's are having tough time. There's no such thing as 'saddest'... the victims are the two ladies (or guys), because the decision maker is taking his/her own sweet time to compare, and trying to split his/her loves between the two victims.

I would say... tell your fren to move on, he/she may win the battle but lost him/herself.

ryusuke · Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:08 pm Post subject:

aiyo...
third party some time also a victim leh...
maybe the third party also dont know he/she is the third person...
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feiyinz · PJNet Newbie Joined: Jul 24, 2008 Posts: 15

my third party friend won the race eventually and holds high majorities( parents side,siblings side and friends side) he/she quite successful. the original parties fallen and fall badly(coz inherently possess bad quality).

but he/she woved to come with a turnover . so problematic..

ryusuke · Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 2:03 pm Post subject:

he/she that had change heart is very hard to go back....
don waste time if a person already turn away from you...
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Joni · Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 6:07 pm Post subject:

Yea, life is too short to cry over spilt milk. Move on is the best option but I know it is tougher to be said and done.
But life move on am sure one day he/she would find his/her soulmate one day...

tcj13888 · PJNet Junior Joined: Jan 22, 2006 Posts: 536

Agree with Joni!

if the girl found out there is a third party at the boy side.

Come and find me! Waiting for your pm, TQ!

Very Happy

ryusuke · Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 11:53 am Post subject:

why must find you???
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lovepark · Posted: Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:15 pm Post subject:

i don understand why those woman still can share their husband? (muslim) Rolling Eyes

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ryusuke · Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 7:20 am Post subject:

love the husband and don wanna let go...
so share lor...
man's problem...
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lovepark · Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 10:26 am Post subject:

not fair right?.. if woman also can have few husband in the same time.. how good it is.. Razz

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