it is important for you to know what u like in life.
maybe u need a partner? by that i dont mean bf/gf..
u need someone who's willing to listen to u. go out with u
if u find someone like that, u can set dates with the person. goout more often, have fun. like that u will meet new people.
dont sulk in your own thoughts as being alone will make u think. thinking too much leads to depression.
maybe u have an interest? such as painting, football, food,? indulge in it. instead of planning for 2 yrs later, why dont u make plans for tomorrow?next week? u only get this life once, live it to its fullest
and maybe u can get a pet. they help keep u company.
Mayb can have a small gathering...
Not to big though..
Or else..it'll be hay-wire (nd to adjust time with the others..)
mayb 2 or 3 in a group will be best... : )
Joined: Feb 11, 2008 Posts: 149 Location: PJ Old Town
Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 11:49 am Post subject:
haha...actually, I am very active gals la..If you all meet me sure will complaints that I am too noisy..just bcoz all of my friends is not around here....Thus, always make some trip for gathering...haha....After go for the trip and come back will felt alone la....Just dislike that feeling only. Is ok for me....My life is full wth activities....having yoga class...additional class....hehe....too tiring............haha.........Sometimes, didnt hang out due to my economic not allowed la....furthermore, petrol price increase le...I need cut down my daily expenses to cover back...No more ice cream and chocolate.
haha...actually, I am very active gals la..If you all meet me sure will complaints that I am too noisy..just bcoz all of my friends is not around here....Thus, always make some trip for gathering...haha....After go for the trip and come back will felt alone la....Just dislike that feeling only. Is ok for me....My life is full wth activities....having yoga class...additional class....hehe....too tiring............haha.........Sometimes, didnt hang out due to my economic not allowed la....furthermore, petrol price increase le...I need cut down my daily expenses to cover back...No more ice cream and chocolate.
Don't just think of how to cut down expenses lar, most important is how to increase your income.
get more part time job to make urselves busy...until u hav no time to think of the word 'bored'. hehe...by this, u can increase ur income and reduce ur expenses (once you are bored, u will want to go out and spend money)
Believe me, sometimes getting down to doing stuff is easier said than done. Getting busy is one way, but just think getting busy on what? Is it even productive or economical to doing it at all? But whatever don't think too much, it'll just make you depressed. I'm facing it at the moment,
How was you guys' meet up? I missed the ice cream!
Anyway, I have something to share about this topic.
I have been living in PJ for about 10 years. My life was rather miserable in the past 1 year due to all sorts of unexpected problems happened to me including car accident, hospitalisation, etc etc. I was seriuosly down with depression.
To cut those sad stories short, I am getting better now. Do feel lonely sometimes but keep practicing valuable inner talk to motivate myself. I have set a target in my life. I want to make things happen in next 2 years! And so I am actively finding ways to change my life!
Money is a very powerful mechanism. Thus gals and/or guys, please do something to build up a better financial base from now! Make full use of your 'lonely boring' time to earn good experience, which can even give you income!
I do struggle whether to move back to my hometown. But PJ is a strategic location to explore, and learn, and earn!
Never too late to start something which can bring you benefit in long run. However, 1 thing that we afraid the most is, we don't have the heart to change, though we 'think' we need to change ~
Everyone face different kind if problems and I truly agree with godbaby.. money problem.
When I was in my secondary school and about to graduate, i was really worried... doesn't know what kind of future life... no money to continue study and working salary is like RM400 a month.. how to survive ? feeding my self also difficult, dare not think about girl friend. Worried what future will be like with that kind of salary ? will I be able to have a family ? how ? can I afford to buy a car ? buying house is like dreaming .....
I am sure a lot of people having the same problem like me, some time feel like being alive is torturing, so many problem to face and handle.....
fast forward ...... i am still survive and I have my family, car and house. all those thing comes naturally as you put in your effort and hardworks. It will come... believe me, because I see it happen.
Well done godbaby, everything happend for a reason, if its not because of down time you are facing, you might not reliase and start planning for you life. Like you said, you want to do something in next 2 years.. please be specified... what is what ? cash ? how much ? car ? what car ? house ? what house ? degree ? what degress ? carreer ? what position... specify it...
then only looking for solution how to acheive it... like cash ? 50K cash in 2 years, that is about 25K a year and 2K per month... so how to save 2K a month ? look for a solution... change job ? work part time ? part time business ?... plan for it..
if you never try it will never happend. and please do not tell me talk is easy and there are so many problem you face... don't ever think your problem is the most difficult to solve or handle..all those are excuses..
Thanks freefree! I appreciate your message and those questions that make me think further..make me to set my goal even more clear and solid!
I have been talking to many people recently. And I can conclude 1 thing for sure, like you said, never try never happen but first of all, the objective must be very firm in every single aspect. That's how people can success...
Firstly you need to get a grip on yourself. That's not easy.
Then you need to tell yourself what do to and do it. That's easy, if you're going to be wanting to do all sorts of ridiculous work.
So get real. Not easy.
And FOCUS! Absolutely not easy.
You need money to survive unless you've already got loads of it or leeching off your parents or someone. At least the latter makes life a little easier.
So you gotta earn some good money. Not easy.
Time runs out on you. You do not have time for yourself. Misses all the good things in life just trying to survive. Its a sad fact but for some of us, its true.
Sometimes don't you wish you were just in a religious order or been put in this world for a misdeed done in the past life......
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