Firstly you need to get a grip on yourself. That's not easy.
Then you need to tell yourself what do to and do it. That's easy, if you're going to be wanting to do all sorts of ridiculous work.
So get real. Not easy.
And FOCUS! Absolutely not easy.
You need money to survive unless you've already got loads of it or leeching off your parents or someone. At least the latter makes life a little easier.
So you gotta earn some good money. Not easy.
Time runs out on you. You do not have time for yourself. Misses all the good things in life just trying to survive. Its a sad fact but for some of us, its true.
Sometimes don't you wish you were just in a religious order or been put in this world for a misdeed done in the past life......
Be positive, nothing is easy, but please focus on solution on a problem instead of keeping thinking the problem, like that you only only amplify the problem.
In order to live happier, 2nd thing must do is " appreciate what you have now ",
I don't know about you, I consider my self lucky because I can see, I can move and I can even run.
So i have nothing to complain, I cannot complain my father did not give me money, because that is not his responsibility.
Joined: Jul 03, 2008 Posts: 5 Location: PJ. Kg Chempaka
Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 2:25 pm Post subject:
freefree wrote:
how can we have a better living ? i guess 1st we need to keep on upgrade ourself, improve our knowledge,
Without the desired to learn, you will not be succeeding in life. Keep an open mind when you learn, turn off your defence mechanism.
As you are more knowledgeable, you will have more control over your life.
Knowledge not necessary from formal education. as long as you have the desire to learn, a better living will be at the end of the tunnel.
Really, haha, at first i thought only myself always have those " Oh, god, im like useless" , "like not accepted by others" some kind of silly thinking.
On my own view, is like we need to dig our inner mind 1st, sometimes it might happen that when you dig yourself, u will start to hate yourself. This is because you will discover more and more of your ability, but just we ignore it or put it aside , we din fully utilize it.
Always upgrade ourself, read more and more books, attend some seminar from time to time. Like me , i attended Millionaire Mind Intensive Training recently, although it's just a preview training for the trainer, it's still a great training. It help me to discover more and more on myself. Thus, i started to hate myself, felt angry to myself, untill i talked to one of my friend, asked me to wrote down anything that i can do to improve my life, then just follow that list as my current, middle and long term goals.
There's some good books to recommend:
1) The Secret
2) Secret Of The Millionaire Mind Mind
3) Law of Attraction
4) Rich Dad, Poor Dad
The "Law Of Attraction" is a must to read if you know to set goal, because you need to let you goalsss to be send to the universe, then on;y you will get it frm the universe e..=) _________________ www.nutritionworkshop.webs.com
Allow me to share something with you. Life is tough, we all know that. If you don't have the money, that's that. Find ways to earn it. But I can share one thing with you, money isn't everything. In your pursuit of wealth, you will face problems. Problems which are bigger that they were when you were broke. Believe me on this. For some out there who's been through this phase, I'm sure they can attest to it.
It depends what you want. Sure, money makes money. It also depends how smart you are to let your money work for you instead of working for money and chasing it around.
Have enough, let it grow by itself. What everyone needs is good friends, good company, good environment, good home (doesn't have to be a bungalow with swimming pool) and luck have it good timing. Believe me, you'll be real happy living that way.
Joined: Feb 11, 2008 Posts: 149 Location: PJ Old Town
Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 5:27 pm Post subject:
yup. Actually everythg are depend on what we think, what we do and what we want.....If want to have better life, we need to save money. If you all want know better about the financial planning, mb can PM me coz my brother are Financial Planner......You can get advices from him........We still need to live even all the material price rise up......haiz...life is tough....
try travel to somewhere alone, as far as you can affort. i mean others country. like me, i used to travel alone to Taiwan. Take a look on the other world, your thinking will become different after that, trust me.^^
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