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sunsui
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| hmm...yeah...that drama called 溏 心 风 暴. not sure about english title. dak dak dei is SWEET !!! |
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jeaniie
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| Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes... his name is "Chan Ho" |
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 9:42 am Post subject: |
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| loselegend wrote: | | Juz wan to ask is the drama is tvb drama got a person named "dak dak dei"? |
i am glad tat if i can help u.. hahaha.. yes.. wahlao.. i just hinting abit only u all already know which drama i toking.. but the person who wrote the diary is not him.. but of cos.. dont follow extacly wat in the drama lar.. i am just giving u idea..
u can write in the paper.. then use riben to tied it.. collect it everyday and put inside a big transperant bottle.. make it nice.. and looks like "letter inside bottle" .. then on ur graduation day..(if also her graduation day) give her the bottle..and dont need to say much.. u can just tell her "all my secrect inside the bottle.. i wish one day we can read together in the future" or... " I won't force u back to be with me.. but i just want to let u know my feeling towards you are still the same"... DO NOT give her the bottle and 1st word say : can u be my gf back?!.. it will be pull back all the sad memory and remind her how u treat her. wat u need to do is let her know u hav changed and still waiting for her. and wait for her respond.. and not kacau her back and keep asking how? how? can we?
and also during the cooling off period.. is also to let urself think properly.. if she is the girl tat u really wan to be with.. maybe after few mth ur mind would change.. and now transfer ur mind into study.. get the excellent result.. no girl wan to be with somone who can't give her future. if u don know how to cook.. learn how to cook.. expecially learn how to cook her favorite food or cake. if can.. pass to her "silently" during her birthday or watso ever...  or if u know how to write song.. write a song special for her.. 
give me few example..wat she had done.. tat make u think she is stupid and how u scold her.
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lovepark
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 9:44 am Post subject: |
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| sunsui wrote: | | hmm...yeah...that drama called 溏 心 风 暴. not sure about english title. dak dak dei is SWEET !!! |
Heart of Greed
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showseries?id=4099
hehe. can watch online here.. but i dont like the ending.. too rush..
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 10:00 am Post subject: |
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| loselegend wrote: | LovePark, really thanks for telling me this advice. This is the best advice i have ever heard.
Thanks again.
And plz dun close tis thread becoz i wan to c tis as my lesson. As my starter kits for a new n better beggining.
Thanks again.  |
actually i learn this from "chan fung" the 988DJ.. he is my idol..lol.. i learn alots from him.. from his one programme 1102. if u want a lesson.. go and see her parents.. tell them the truth, u treat their daughter very bad and cruel.. ask them to slap u.. ask them to forgive u... to girl.. it shuld be touching. cos u willing to pull down ur ego. and admit wat u had done.
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i scold her for some low-life reason such as some computer stuff, her music open too loud and many more (since now i onli think of her goodness). I even scold her very loud in a place where many people for not listen to me. (b4 tis "very loud incident" happen, me have mouth fight wif her for whole morning)
But stil she forgive me for wat i did. I really stubborn n stupid. I can onli hope for a better 2mrw.
Sometime i also scold her for good reason. Eg: dun slp while her hair is wet, dun so late or early to eat, plz rest while tired...
But no matter how i wan to change i cant change it. She now got a nice bf, now onli hope she will got a better future wif him than wif me.
Last time b4 me n my ex start, i m very "zhu dong" to know a girl n dun even care will i embarasse in the end or not. Even can chat wif them long enuf, but now i scared of taking a simple action (for asking them handphone or msn or friendster).
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wat i wan to say. wat i can tell.. wat i can teach oledi teach u..
after so many days.. i think u already accept the fact and u also know the guy is better than u..
so is either tell urself to let her go.. forget her continue ur life..
or just wait and wait and wait .. for... don know...
i tot wat u will scold her... but.. being together of cos have to tolerate each other.. there is impossible to find someone who are exactly the same personality..same characterlistic.. same lifestyle n same background with u.. unless its duplicate. no point for u to scolding when she is not as wat u want.. if u can't change her..then "Join" her.
my brain cant think of anything now... cos 5pm liao.. going home soon 
and these 2days wont be around... wish u all the best....
the past is already past.. ur eyes born at front to let u see future.. not keep looking at the back(past)
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loselegend
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Thanks LovePark, ur advice really nice.
U can b a love consultant
Now, i know tat any thing actualy can tolerate. Becoz love ned tolerate, so that in the future after married, if becoz of small mater fight then cause divorce then its really bad.
I now knw my lesson oready n i will look in the future.
But stil, I cant put it down no matter what. But, i look thru (kan kai).
I think mayb is becoz now no love make my life meaningless. So, if now i find new love. Is it ok?
For me, love is something that cant replaced easily. But wif new love, i can take old love as a lesson n move on wif my new n improve relationship.
I think new love could solve tis "put down" matter. But is it appropriate? Of coz, wif new love, the loyalty will only to new love and wont wait for the return.
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why u just keep mention looking for the new love?
without love u will die is it? why must continue the new one when the past is end? and this is not fair for the girl as a replacement. she is not the tools for u as a medicine to cure ur scar. u are very selfish.. until now u still think of ur ownself.. u still don know how to love a person. and until now u still don know wat is love.
fall down is not the most important. the most important is how u going to stand up and accept the fact. and u are just being a coward simply looking for someone as a spare tyre to help u forget someone and avoid.. and u totally dont care this girl is it someone u want and u totally don care u love this girl onot. don ever tell u tat u will TRY to love her when u are still thinking ur past. i wont believe that. cos u never plan to love her just making used of her only. until the end u will just make this girl to be ur another victim! u think wat? she is the toy for u to train how to love a person is it?
i very disappointed with u.. its a right choice the girl choose to leave u. bcos no matter wat.. until the end.. u wont know how to love a person. bcos u dont know wat is love called.. and don ever say that u will give a girl happiness and future. cos until the end.. u will only think of ur ownself. u are very selfish and coward.
no matter wat is it. if u think urself is right just go ahead. u will never grow up if u never fall down. tats the last thing i can say to u. today will be my last day here. tomolo n next year onwards.. i dont think i wiill have the chance to come online. Wish u all the best U can PM me if u need any help.. but becareful.. i very angry one 
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| lovepark wrote: | | today will be my last day here. tomolo n next year onwards.. i dont think i wiill have the chance to come online. |
Hmm? what happen? Why so many people leaving pjnet? |
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loselegend
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Ok LovePark.
Dun angry n i have learn my lesson.
Even i wan to find new loves also difficult to me since i really a coward, cant take any action.
So, most probably let time pass by n c if got jodoh.
1 more question. Even me n my ex hav break-up n she oready find new love. Smetime v go out togther, she seem not happy wif me even i talk or no talk wif her. (friend talk)
Btw, i have send a same question pm to u, lovepark. 
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| loselegend wrote: | Thanks LovePark, ur advice really nice.
U can b a love consultant
Now, i know tat any thing actualy can tolerate. Becoz love ned tolerate, so that in the future after married, if becoz of small mater fight then cause divorce then its really bad.
I now knw my lesson oready n i will look in the future.
But stil, I cant put it down no matter what. But, i look thru (kan kai).
I think mayb is becoz now no love make my life meaningless. So, if now i find new love. Is it ok?
For me, love is something that cant replaced easily. But wif new love, i can take old love as a lesson n move on wif my new n improve relationship.
I think new love could solve tis "put down" matter. But is it appropriate? Of coz, wif new love, the loyalty will only to new love and wont wait for the return. |
HI loselegent.
Since ur ex gf is with another guy already, it is time to move on. No need to wait for her.
I understand ur feeling of life is meaningless. There are people that priority in life is to give the best to the love one. All the things/action that are taken are base on the partner's need. So when the partner left, there is no more dream/goal/purpose. So life felt meaningless.
Lovepark won't understand this. But I have to agree that we can live without partner/love temporarily. However, cannot be too long.....
Set your goal on your career, on your hobby or other thing while u look for someone that is really suitable. Don't rush into getting a gal.. (sometime that person might come up quit fast also... u will know its the person and u will automatically put all ur effort to chase her). |
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| pencapchew wrote: | | Hmm? what happen? Why so many people leaving pjnet? |
no lar.. told u ma.. my project will end Dec. not sure where we will transferred and also don know can online onot. and also if found new job, maybe cant be online as frequent as i can. but now.. everyone of us just sit in office do nothing and online surfing n chating.. not sure yet.. anyhow.. if anything.. click the email button and send me anything
add on.. i just got the call from my agency... i got the new job!!.. much much better than wat my company offer.. and will start 14th Jan.. so wont be here after tat 
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| yipck2003 wrote: | | Lovepark won't understand this. But I have to agree that we can live without partner/love temporarily. However, cannot be too long..... |
I can do it.. why not u guys?.. why must be so dessperate looks for another next victims? but of cos.. maybe some guys they cant live without the hole.
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| loselegend wrote: | 1 more question. Even me n my ex hav break-up n she oready find new love. Smetime v go out togther, she seem not happy wif me even i talk or no talk wif her. (friend talk)
Btw, i have send a same question pm to u, lovepark. |
I am not her.. i cant give u 100% answer on wat she think.. either u can ask her.. or..maybe she think u are irritating.. or maybe she think tat u are very useless.. ask her out but don talk with her... or she dont know wat u are thinking.. u only think to chase her back when u found out she got new bf.. or maybe she think u are so fake.. change to different person tat u are not used to be after both of u broke up.. or maybe she think until now u still cant accept the fact.. keep disturbing her. or maybe she still have the hope on u.. but u talk nonsense.. or wat u do is not wat she want..
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